ephemeralism

i come to realise that blogging is stupid for a multitude of reasons and while i regret taking so long to come to this conclusion, i'm just as forgiving of myself, because we all will come to realise certain things someday, somehow.

a colleague of mine didn't really come to work this week except for one day. it's just quite strange how nobody ever mentioned him...i mean we're colleagues but is that all to it? don't you even show the least concern, like ask about how he is and stuff? of course if he's the chao geng type then you will want to think twice. but he's unlikely to be.

point is, how transient things are. that's his favourite word. it's nothing to do with being emotional, or giving the oh-im-so-concerned-about-him kinda philosophy. it's really being concerned about people. i bet when most ppl ORD their colleagues just don't give a shit bout them. of course if you don't give a damn bout people you will get back the same cold treatment. but if u take it to another level, can i also propose that life's like that. you return as ashes, and that's all that's left. memories fade, everything else too.

so. do give a shit.